(JUST LIKE) STARTING OVER WAS DEFINITELY FOR PAUL – a compilation
- A meaningful wordplay
As you know, John attached great importance to the lyrics of his songs. He liked to smuggle in word games and hidden meanings. Let’s look at a fragment of the lyrics of “(Just Like) Starting Over”.
It’s time to spread our wings and fly
Wings was Paul’s band in the 1970s.
Don’t let another day go by
“Another Day” is a song by Paul and Linda that was released as the A-side of a non-album single in February 1971. It was Paul’s debut single, following the Beatles break-up in 1970. (Sidenote: giving credits to both himself and Linda, Paul broke up the Lennon-McCartney partnership, angering Allen Klein).
my love
“My Love” is a 1973 song by Wings. The single was viewed as Wings’ first significant success.
2. The demos
In the first demo, John uses the word “walrus”:
Everyday we used to make it love so why can’t we be making love – it’s easy. The time has come, the walrus said, for you and me to stay in bed again, it’ll be just like starting over
The walrus is a famous motif from Beatles songs. In the song “I Am The Walrus” (1967) John declares that he is the titular walrus, a year later in “Glass Onion” he stated: „And here’s another clue to you all – the walrus was Paul”. In “God” (1970) John sings: “I was the walrus.” In an interview from 1969 or 1970, George jokes: „And if you are listening, I am the walrus too”.
Regardless of which Beatles was the walrus, John is for sure giving us an interesting clue here.
As for „in bed”:
Here’s another fascinating demo...
This requires no comment. It’s just that John suddenly referred to “Why Don’t We Do it In the Road”, a song by Paul from the Beatles era.
EDIT:
The whole fragment is:
Just take your clothes off honey,
and stick your nose in money..
why don’t we… do it in the road?! (Laughs)
A little hotel where we used to screw
A little place down in Montauk
Just you, me, the cook and the servants too
As @i-am-the-oyster pointed out (the screen is theirs) - it’s a 17 minute drive from Paul’s house in the Hamptons to Montauk Motel.
3. John explaining who the song is for
„I’m not aiming, I am not aiming at 16 year olds. If they can dig it, please dig it. But when I was singing and writing this and working with her, I was visualizing all the people of my age group from the 60s. Being in their 30s and 40s now, just like me, and having wives and children and having gone through everything together, I am singing to them! I hope the young kids like it as well, but I’m really talking to the people that grew up with me and saying: „Here I am now, how are you? How’s your relationship going? Did you get through it all? Wasn’t the 70s a drag? You know, here we are, let’s try and make the 80s good, you know, because it’s still up to us to make what we can of it. It’s not out of our control”. I still believe in love, peace. I still believe in positive thinking when I can do it. I’m not always positive but when I am, I try and project it”.
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqxPx2Tvf6A
Let’s point out that the song which convinced John to come out of retirement was „Coming up” by Paul.
You want a love to last forever
One that will never fade away
I want to help you with your problem
Stick around, I say
(…)
You want some peace and understanding
So everybody can be free
I know that we can get together
We can make it, stick with me
BONUS (this is not evidence or premise, but maybe Paul understood that the song was addressed to him): Paul’s reaction to the song after John’s death.
„…Time passed. Paul locked the door of his home studio and played (Just Like) Starting Over, the first single from Double Fantasy. Top volume. For days”.
- Christopher Sandford, „McCartney”
EDIT:
(it’s also @i-am-the-oyster’s reveal): One Sweet Dream podcast did an interview where May Pang agreed with the host (JL)SO was for Paul and emphasised that it wasn’t about Yoko – it’s a patrons-only episode so I can’t link it, but it’s April 2023, around the 1h29 mark).
I would take it with a grain of salt, though, because May (for valid reasons) dislikes Yoko.
As @paul-mccartney-official noticed, the stripped down mix of this song begins with:
When they were teenagers, John and Paul identified with their musical idols: John was Buddy Holly and Paul was Little Richard or Elvis.
This is Lennon talking about his and McCartney’s meeting at Village Woolton fete:
It is possible that John refers to his youthful years in this dedication. However, there is also an option that he mentioned his former idols, because “(Just like) starting over” musically refers to the 1950s. It depends on you what you believe in.